Our Kinship

Kinships are the roots of the African and African American Community.

Historically, our culture values family. So much so, even those that are not blood related, but close to us, we may regard as “Kin”. We call each other cousin, brotha, bro, sista, sis, auntie, and “big momma” is everybody’s grandmother.

We must preserve our cultural heritage and ancestral traditions and pass this on to the next generations. But the strength in this solidarity must be more than titles. We must SEE each other as family, CALL each other family, and most importantly TREAT each other like family.

A platform for information
to stimulate conversation and spark action
  • • Racial, economic & environmental justice
  • • Black empowerment & self-sufficiency
  • • Unity through seeing, calling & treating each other as family

Loving ourselves

See ourselves

To see each other as family, we must stop looking at each other through the lens of white supremacy, oppression, and self-hatred. We have allowed it to promote colorism and dictate beauty in our community, pit us against one another, and reinforce the myth that we do not support each other.

Save ourselves

Systematic oppression tore black families apart and strives to break down the black family structure through endorsing stereotypes and misconceptions. Though no family is perfect, to save ourselves we must treat each other like family. We can acknowledge the imperfection and any dysfunction in our community of kinship, and work in love toward doing and being better.

We want to provide a platform for information, to stimulate conversation and to spark action. Besides seeing each other as our family, what other ways are there to create unity?

Uplifting ourselves

What is a family?

OurKinship adopts the ideals of a family unit because an exemplar family:

  • …loves each other
  • …says “I love you” and speaks to each other in kindness
  • …. shows love with outward signs of affection
  • …supports and takes care of each other with their money, time, and resources
  • …. uplifts each other and corrects each other with love, and not with disparaging words or insults
  • …. teaches and supports the education of its family members
  • …. desires to spend time with each other and breaks bread together
  • …. does not physically abuse each other or kill each other with weapons or with the poison of illicit drugs
  • …. forgives each other
  • …. are always there for each other, even when friends desert, family is there thick or thin
  • …. celebrates their likeness and are proud of the physical traits that authenticate “that they are kin to each other”
  • …. supports each other’s dreams, pursuits, businesses.

We want to provide a platform for information, to stimulate conversation and to spark action. What would you add to our family list?

Education

It is said that no one can take your education or what you have learned away from you. Having an education, whether formal or informal, brings a natural and lasting change in reasoning and ability to achieve goals. The language and vernacular we use with each other and having common goals creates stronger ties.

But, as black people, and especially in the peer groups of black children, we need to remove barriers within our community that disparagingly use terms like “acting white or talking white or being accused of deviating from our black identity when we strive for academic achievement or speak “standard English”.

For our children, education should be a priority. Yes, sports have been a means of wealth for a few of us. But, even with rich black entertainers and athletes, it has not increased the overall generational wealth in the black community, nor lifted the average income of the African American community.

We want to provide a platform for information, to stimulate conversation and to spark action. How does education create unity? Is education the key for destroying the effects of white supremacy?

Money & Wealth

Money

One way to quickly boost the economy is to give black people money because they will spend it. And they will spend it all in white businesses. Are these true statements? It seems like it is. The generational wealth and income of black people have not increased over time. Black people must be intentional about increasing black wealth and how we spend our money.

Wealth

  • We need to save money, spend wisely or not spend at all
  • Spend our money in ways that improve the black economy
  • Decrease unemployment and help each other get jobs and keep jobs
  • Increase entrepreneurship

We want to provide a platform for information, to stimulate conversation and to spark action. There are many ways to increase generational wealth. What are other areas involving money should we focus on?

Family

Our Families

White supremacy tried to destroy the traditional black family. During slavery, families were torn apart. Post slavery, black fathers were stripped from their family through lynching … and now through mass incarceration. Instead of giving the deserved reparations that would have given blacks an economic start; the welfare system dismantled poor black families in need by requiring a father not be in the family.

Drug use made a significant number of our parents unfit and unable to raise us. The absence of strong intact families or strong role models to emulate, resulted in the cycle of teen pregnancy, single mothers, and young boys growing up not understanding their full potential as a man.

We want to provide a platform for information, to stimulate conversation and to spark action. How do you define “family”? Are traditional families a thing of the past? How do we strengthen the black family structure?

Health

African Americans have some of the worse health outcomes. In some cases, medical problems are less likely to occur, but when they do, the prognosis is worse.

African Americans must control our health by:

  1. Taking care of our body
  2. Taking care of our mind
  3. Taking care of our environment

We want to provide a platform for information, to stimulate conversation and to spark action. How can we ensure we are not victims of a health system that does not value black lives like everyone else’s?

Environment

Black and brown communities are disproportionately impacted by environmental injustice. Pollution, lack of restoration or conservation, magnify oppression which contributes to the poor health and economic stagnation of their communities. Promoting and celebrating environmental awareness in our neighborhoods should be part of our narrative. Protecting and taking care of where we live improve health and wellbeing, peace of mind and happiness, –and security, and generational wealth.

We can take steps to lead the charge in our community by supporting

  • Environmentally conscious black business
  • Businesses that support black lives
  • Businesses that value the black dollar

We want to provide a platform for information, to stimulate conversation and to spark action. Do you think black people and people of color understand how their environment effects many aspects of their lives? How do we get black people to become more environmentally aware and active?

BlackLifeHacks

Through OurKinship, our contribution to the family is to provide a platform for information and to stimulate conversation; likewise spark action through BlacHaxs.com. BlacHaxs is our fusion of environmentalism and the culture and ingenuity of black people to uplift the environment and community, preserve resources, and build generational wealth.

Let’s get to work!

Visit www.blachaxs.com

OurWorldFamily

Not only does #UsGotUs …We GOT each other. OurKinship recognizes we are our priority. Why? Because racism exists in America and across the globe, and systematic racism is structured to oppress us and devalues our lives. Our very existence is threatened. We need to save ourselves from this and we need to heal. We will make this a better world for African Americans by #SavingOurselves and we invite all peoples to join us in making this a better world for every living being in our global community.

OurKinship is not us disengaging as a race from others. We recognize that race is a social construct and we are part of the global family. Our efforts to uplift the black community is not done in isolation. When black people and people of color rise and thrive, it is indubitable that all people will rise up too. We are all human and essentially, we are more alike than we are different.

Skin color, eye color, hair texture etc., are trivial differences, but has been used to justify putting humans in “racial” groups to support superiority. Our DNA is 99.9% the same and historically all of our ancestors are black. At the end of the day we include everyone as our family, regardless of skin color, religion, or abilities. Reconciliation and healing does not happen without moving forward together.

We ask all of you (every “race”), to move forward together with us and take care of those in need, especially the poor, children, the vulnerable…and even our environment and animals.

We, at OurKinship, want to provide a platform for information, to stimulate conversation and to spark action. Let’s get to work, together. Visit our action network at blachaxs.com

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